I’m Beautiful Like Me.

I have made some changes around the blog site. If you hadn’t already noticed or read about it, I bought a domain! With that, I felt it was time for some changes and upgrades.

Firstly, I have changed the appearance ever so slightly. I gave up on the three column format because it felt too crowded to me. I have added some new widgets - curse those widgets! I love ‘em and want to use every widget I come across, but they really bog down page loading time and well, everyone hates that! So, I’m trying to keep the widgets simple and relevant to the blog. And I have managed to hide about half of them on post pages, which is not as simple as it sounds! Please note there are two new ones that I’m quite pleased with: Buzzworthy Posts and Top Commenters. Buzzworthy Posts are posts that received a lot of attention, either via comments or tags, diggs, etc. on social networks. Top Commenters is a widget that lets me spread the love of my most dedicated commenters! Thanks, BHF. You my girl!

I have two polls going on in the sidebar (so posted in the event that you are a feed reader) that I’m sincerely hoping will get some votes. Basically, I want to know how you read the content of my site and how you feel about the site’s appearance. I’m concerned that some people might have trouble reading the layout as I use a black background and it wouldn’t be the first time I’ve heard complaints about it being difficult to read. Also, I have very recently subscribed to a large number (think: 80+) of blogs. With that, I have been exposed to all sorts of inspiration on blog appearances and think I would be up to the challenge of more format changes if the masses so demand. On that note, if you are a plurker and blog author, please add your URL to my plurk blogroll page.

Finally, I have discovered the I Follow Movement - manually removing the ‘nofollow’ code from blogger’s template so that links posted in comments work. I urge you to leave your links in all comments henceforth and I will spread the link love! Please see the image on the top right of your screen. You can get your own and learn how to remove that code properly from your template (regardless of what blogging platform you use) at Randa Clay Design.

I do expect a couple of additional changes in the coming weeks. When the polls close here, I will make a decision about the format on the web and I also have some other things in the works that are temporarily stalled. I’ll be sure to update you when I know more.

In the meantime, thanks for reading and voting!

Slept well last night for the first time in ages. Took forever to get there (2am-ish), but Husband got up with the boy in the morning and let me sleep in. I slept until NOON! It was divine, I tell you.

D called and was struggling with her decision to send T here. Certainly understandable. I listened patiently (can you imagine?!) while she basically sorted her thoughts and feelings out loud. I suggested she have a good, long sit-down with her husband and figure out what she wants to do. She called me later and said that she instead had a long sit-down with T and felt much better about her coming here.

So, Husband and I spent the afternoon making preparations for T’s arrival. I’ll be picking her up from the airport at 11:55am tomorrow.

I felt good enough to do quite a few chores today. I sorted, washed, dried, folded and put away 3 loads of laundry, washed dishes, vacuumed and made dinner. Mom dropped the girl off and I took some pictures of mom holding the baby.

I spent a ridiculous amount of time uploading photos and videos of the family to the family site. Hopefully it’s appreciated by more people in the family than just me!